also...my H said he doesn't think he could ever repair the damage with my family. anyone have thoughts on piecing with a spouse's family members? i can see why he'd consider that as a factor in us working things out...my family is very close and i think he feels like things are effed up beyond fixing.
really, any words of wisdom would be appreciated.
Easy. unconditional love. The only way H can heal the relationships is to act and act and act. And show why he chooses to love you. A hard path to follow but if he chooses to love you he will do this for it is important to you. And if he is doing this you use words of affirmation to aid in it.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
