Honey pie -
sorry to hear that rat b-turd is still bothering you. He's a psychopath - you know that, right? The absolute worst ex on the boards.

Next January can't come soon enough. Until then, just focus on pulling your life back together as best you can.

Some medical resources for you, alternative stuff for your RA:
www.lowdosenaltrexone.org
www.roadback.org

You are a strong, strong woman, and your kids know that.
(((((Hugs)))))

Ellie