How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

Well I ended up not going. The environment in which the party was being held was something I did not want to subject myself to(I know it sounds selfish).

I walked into the room which she was sleeping and she said "thought you were going?" I said "I decided not to" and she said "WHY?!?" I explained as aforementioned and she understood....at least that is the impression I got.

How about tomorrow? how do I make the most of our trip so we both enjoy and hopefully connect with her.

I am having trouble finding that happy medium. Where I am not pressuring or pursuing at the same time not giving her the impression that I am moving on. Any links to good threads with some advice on this matter? Thanks