yeah. tomorrow. enroll your kids in daycare; make your wife pay for it. wtf! she's spending money on another man that should be for your kids. then right after you drop them kids off go to the nearest landscape company and ask if they need any help. you can start tomorrow. there. 2 problems solved. you can look for a job in your field at night when your not sore or sunburnt or playing with your kids.

on your way home. stop at u-haul or the po or lowes and get a stack of cardboxes. pack up all your wifes stuff and move her to the basement so she can sleep on the old couch. there. reclaimed your bedroom and got rid of a depressing tought for 8 hours.

buy a really nice bicycle, or a motorcycle, if youre not chicken like me, for getting back and forth to work and out of the house for the weekend. then go read WAW and the law of attraction by Fracesc. he is getting great advice and comments on exposing his wife's affair. it sounds like you are next.

does the above make sense?

and stop being a love sick guy. it just does'nt sound right.