Hey girls, Rob - hows life !? Bobbi, yes, it is a great place, but then we just did a spreadsheet and we cant afford it maybe !! Damn it shouldnt have moved to such a desirable part of the country. Apparently, they got a lot of "London" weddings down here.
Well, bf is very relaxed, still ok on those 10mg, very excited about the wedding and happy to trawl around 9 venues with me, we thought we'd try and get them all hit in one weekend!
The past comes up a bit, but he always rolls his eyes now and/or teases me.. oh not THAT again! I explained Idont want to in any way upset him if something gets mentioned...its a bit like when someone dies.. people after a while stop mentioning them to you, but just because they're gone doesnt mean they are forgotton. I said it was a hugely significant time in my life that has ended up in a very happy future, but it doesnt mean that I have forgotton the things that happened and got us here. For example, there are still 3 photos of her in this house in his box of things, he has forgotton they're there (sheesh, men!) but I havent. One is of them cuddling at MY FAVOURITE BEACH!! grr. So I would prefer them to be gone and I know he would too, but I havent mentioned it in months. I want to get to the point I no longer care about it at all, and then casually mention it and let him handle it.
Other than that, we have a really solid, loving R these days, way better than our old one and we have a lot of laughs. I always have noticed that a side effect of doing alot of babymaking has been to bring us closer together. Its made us more cohesive. We wouldnt have been ML so much after 11 years together quite honestly, if it wasnt for needing to try, so its been interesting and suprising to see thats its been a really healthy thing for us, for healing the split and the past. I dont think I would have known that and I havent read it anywhere.
Love al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
