Just sucks that it has gotten to this point. I hate to say it....but I think it time to vacate the house if you haven't already. There are just too many stories on here and abroad of lawyers and wives using a good law for the wrong reasons.
It sucks, but that is just the truth.
Other than that...read up on LRT technique. The schedule has been sped up because of this regretfully, but you need to protect yourself in all aspects and LRT will do that the best.
Don't fret over the debt......the way things are going, you would have paid it one way or the other.
