I'm better now. After talking to my atty, (which is really handy when he sits 30 feet away from my desk) I decided to e-mail a proposed separation agreement to stbx by the end of the week. He'll review it before I send it out. If stbx wants to b!tch, he'll have something to b!tch about when he sees this.
Right now I'm pretty sure he thinks I'm going to just quietly disappear out of his life and things will go on as normal- but I'm sorry, it's going to cost him a little. Spousal support, child support, and a few other things...
We'll see what he says... I don't want to sound like a greedy, self-entitled WAW that you hear about so often here, but I'm not going to let him screw me anymore. (Literally and figuratively )