I also agree with robx (when we agree, there must be something to it ) about the family thing. Doing it in the way you have planned, could make you look kinda bad actually.
I'm really interested in finding more about this. Why would I look bad? Is she having the affair, not me. I do need to let the family know at some point, don't I? Otherwise I'm just a bitter a-hole to them. Again, just trying to learn. Pls share your thoughts.
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I agree with Dudess but I'll add another point, if you're contacting your wife's parents to get them to side with you on this, don't bother, it never works out that way, they will always side with her before they side with you. That's their kid and you're just the son-in-law, you will usually always lose in that situation.
Contact the OM's wife and her sister first and leave it at that and wait for the reply back. Even if the OM's wife is planning to leave him, this will still add ammunition to whatever plan she has in store for him.
Go for it.
We gave you the answer, you seem to be looking for an alternate explanation, simple is always best, she's their kid, they may not approve of what she's done, but they will always pick her safety and well being over yours - thinking otherwise is foolish.
) about the family thing. Doing it in the way you have planned, could make you look kinda bad actually.
