Thanks everyone for the concern, but I think it will be ok from what my friend tells me who had to take them a few months ago. She said they are not bad, and actually try to teach options to save your M.
These are NOT a prerequisite to filing, just for the D to be final. When my H and I were on speaking terms a few weeks ago we talked about this class and he thought it would be good for us as parents even if we decide not to get a D.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10