I know! Same story here...Just remember that OW is a symptom...just like the alcohol or drugs!
Today, I am going back and forth between "I don't want to get divorced" But, I also don't know if "I still want H to come home".
These H's are not acting like the men we fell in love with and we are also having our own changes. I say that now and tomorrow I'll be a blubbering idiot! lol
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing