When you speak to the attny ask them to explain the dangers of "verbal agreement" to you. As per my understanding of BC divorce law it seems that if you verbally agree to something your H asks (other than property division) it can be enforceable in court. Before you speak to your H about money find out more about this.
DO NOT E-MAIL HIM ANYTHING until you talk to an attny.
I am unsure why you think spousal support won't be much. You opted not to be in the workforce to raise children therefore your H would have to support you for 4.5 years (marriage is 9 yrs) so both of you have equal income (not counting child support). There are all sorts of stipulations I read about so be sure to ask the attny!
