Well, he is a recovering addict, he has been clean now for 9 months, I know he attends his AA meetings and he is sober.
That much I do know, however, he did say it was getting harder and harder to stay that way (Pain meds and alcohol both).
So, I figured since he has been there, done that route with me the first go round, moved in with the OW and ended up coming home and gone again within 14 months, doesnt love me again and is divorcing me outta the gate, I figured it HAS to be OW...

UGH. Why do I EVEN CARE?!!!! ARGH!!!!!!!!