Ok here's the draft for the OM W message on facebook.

"Your husband XXXX and my wife XXXX have been unfaithful to us for the past month. Your H been telling my W that he doens't love you and he's just staying for the kids but he'll leave you soon to come with her to XXXX. Are you aware of this? I know it's hard to read this but I assure you I do have solid evidence if you're willing to know the truth. You deserve it. Don't confront your H know yet, until you have evidence in your hands. Contact me ( email address)."

To the sister same message with this intro "Sorry to involve you in this but it's CRUCIAL that you pass XXXX this message (above message)"

Suppose I send this today so tomorrow I should have an email message or facebook reply with the answer.

That'd mean I'd have to send evidence immediately. Otherwise she'll get too anxious and confront the OM without solid evidence and he'll lie his way around it, she'll say it was me and he'll tell my W I know. Game over.

If things go ok and she gets the evidence and expose OM.

Then what? It does needs to be synchronized with me exposing to my W, taking the money out of the bank, canceling phone line (that's in motion), etc

Right?

I also need an opinion for worst case scenario to be prepared, pls.


Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *

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