Originally Posted By: ThisCan'tBTheEnd

Originally Posted By: Mach1


"And you are giving another human , that power over YOUR life...."



If I can't conquer this fear (him never loving me again), I am giving him control?



Frankly ?

Yes, you are....

Fear is perhaps the strongest emotion we have.

And when you stay in that fear, because of someone else, you are giving them your power....

The power over you being free of that emotion...

Whatever it may be...

When you can overcome that emotion....regardless of the outcome...

Then you will become your own person...

What else do you have to lose ?

The worst has already happened, so you DID face and have lived that fear.....

Hasn't killed you yet...