How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

My W wore her ring to work again today. I kept my distance when she came home and was actually in the process of getting ready to do a little shopping. She did ask where I was going and for what I told her and said "your welcome to join" she declined.

Just before I left she went through my phone again and went through all my archived messages. I sat there and let her do it. I walked out the door and then came back in because I forgot something. She was looking at my email. At first I was a little upset and asked to see the laptop, she got possessive and said it is my laptop, no. I felt myself slowly getting annoyed but held back. She said " you were so anxious to leave so why don't you just go" so I left.

When I returned home I said "I may have over reacted when you were looking through my email. I receive and have self-helP tips and ebooks in my email and I don't know if I was embarrassed or what but I am not ashamed and should not had responded like that" she said "ok" and that was that. She then went to sleep.

Tomorrow we are going to that concert which is a 4hr drive away. We are staying overnight and returning the following day. Tips? Suggestions? On how to make this an enjoyable trip to help melt some ice...