Its not that I haven't had wild monkey sex (LOL) w/ the fling, but I would really like a regular thing, not just once every three months.
Actually, although I do enjoy sex, I would like someone to snuggle with...stupid woman lol~!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Snuggling is fine..but..AFTER the mad ninja sex. ALL RISE indeed.
Trouble (you were expecting this to be over, right?).
STBXW's atty keeps changing the agreement and at my expense. Problem clauses: 1) 4 weeks parenting time in the summer is written as 4 weekends 2) STBXW's atty keeps jacking up his legal fees to be paid to him on sale of our house, was $20K ordered by judge, last week he added $5K; now he added another $5K (total $30K). My atty's fees are being manipulated by him indirectly 3) Clause saying that if any resources are found AFTER signing, STBXW gets 75% (trust me, there is nothing but toast left). L wants this removed. Says she never saw it in a divorce decree.
My L is staying tough. She is unhappy and won't budge at this point unless fixed. If we go to trial, it is OUR opinion that he doesn't care about whether STBXW gets anything...only his legal fees. Signing may be adjourned since I have surgery on Thursday and L now feels the battle is not over.
FIB
Among a few.
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Antlers...thanks for coming back. I, too,lurk on some threads without posting. I appreciate the support.
LolaL...details..details....LOLOL.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
kml...thanks for letting us see the 'dark side' of the force. LOL.
mishka...your day is, uh, coming.
To Coach...throughout my stay here, the most common lines I have read are: -"check out Coach's thread" -"click on this link and read what Coach wrote" -"ask Coach for advice"
That says something. Although my M is over, I will always wonder if there was one other thing I could have done...one less mistake made...one less backslide done....whether the family would still be intact. However, I truly doubt that this woman, STBXW, would have still made it the distance. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Although my M is over, I will always wonder if there was one other thing I could have done...one less mistake made...one less backslide done....whether the family would still be intact. However, I truly doubt that this woman, STBXW, would have still made it the distance.FIB
Man, did you just read this lurker's mind!
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
Although my M is over, I will always wonder if there was one other thing I could have done...one less mistake made...one less backslide done....whether the family would still be intact. However, I truly doubt that this woman, STBXW, would have still made it the distance. FIB
I would encourage you not to wonder about things like this.
Keep moving forward.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
Although my M is over, I will always wonder if there was one other thing I could have done...one less mistake made...one less backslide done....whether the family would still be intact. However, I truly doubt that this woman, STBXW, would have still made it the distance. FIB
I would encourage you not to wonder about things like this.
Keep moving forward.
You're right, of course. Thanks.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
To Coach...throughout my stay here, the most common lines I have read are: -"check out Coach's thread" -"click on this link and read what Coach wrote" -"ask Coach for advice"
I have learned more here than I have given. I am grateful for the advice and counsel I receive here. Thanks for the compliment though, I found a voice that was stifled inside of me and now I can't shut it up.
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That says something. Although my M is over, I will always wonder if there was one other thing I could have done...one less mistake made...one less backslide done....whether the family would still be intact. However, I truly doubt that this woman, STBXW, would have still made it the distance.
Wasted energy trying to relive the past. Make sure your DB education goes to good use in the present. I know that I would have not reconciled without my wife being the woman she is. So even though it takes one to tango it takes two to have a marraige.
Strength and Honor.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Wasted energy trying to relive the past. Make sure your DB education goes to good use in the present. I know that I would have not reconciled without my wife being the woman she is. So even though it takes one to tango it takes two to have a marraige.
ohhhhhhhhh, well put! Every word of it.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
Its not that I haven't had wild monkey sex (LOL) w/ the fling, but I would really like a regular thing, not just once every three months. 
