Hang on, if YOU don't GO then HE can't get a divorce?
is that what you are saying?
What are the consequences to you if you don't go?
Really mb? I think even the most unreasonable judge would understand you need to get your feet under you. It is going against your IC's advice to proceed with this now. What does your L say about postponing this?
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread