Ok. I need more advice please. Once I have moved back how do I act going forward? How do I act towards her? withdrawn but pleasant? If I go somewhere and she is home, do I tell her where I am going? or just say I am going out? Should we do things together with the children? or individually?
How do I handle all the things I used to do before I moved out, things that she now has to do. eg. I used to take my son to school in the morning and pick him up in the afternoon. I would always cook supper as I currently work from home most days so I can get dinner fixed earlier for my son. I just dont want to go through all this effort of doing whats right for me and taking control of my situation, just to go back to getting walked all over because i dont have a solid plan on how to go foward in place