I would send the exact same message to OM W & her sister, and sooner, rather than later.
I also agree with robx (when we agree, there must be something to it ) about the family thing. Doing it in the way you have planned, could make you look kinda bad actually.
IMO, your best bet is if the OM is stringing your W along and has no intention of leaving his wife, and changes his tune when she find out. "Exposing" to your W isn't a big deal because she is planning to tell you anyway, and has practically been shouting it out on her FB status messages anyhow.
Ok, so in your opinion I shouldn't involve family at this point. Ok? If I don't then taking half the money won't be a problem. If I take all of the money and don't tell her family, I'll be in SO MUCH trouble and I seriously think it's not worth it. They'll think I'm a resented thief and will never care if they is or was an affair.
Secondly, I need some clarification then on timings.
1. Contact OM W and her sister. Today or tomorrow. As a first approach. Then offer to show evidence in 24 hrs. ? (I'll post the message here before sending it)
2. This changes exposing wife on Thursday or Friday then? Still needs to be synchronized, right? Previously I've taken 50% of the money into my personal account. And stopped the phone.
3. Not exposing to family (for now?)
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Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *
) about the family thing. Doing it in the way you have planned, could make you look kinda bad actually.
