Exactly! It's too bad she did not pull her head out of her a$$.
How is this all your fault?
What the hell is wrong with these WAWs? Seriously?
Been lurking in your thread for a while but I have to say that divorce would be the best thing for you.
I hated my divorce and think I could have fixed things but I am reminded once again by both our situations that if the other party is completely loony-tunes that logic, love and hard work will simply not work.
So here we are. I feel for you AFWAW. Like it isn't stressfull enough just being in the military. You have to deal with this BS and raise your D by yourself.
You are a great man and someday a woman will come along that will appreciate that. Trust me on this. It's just a matter of time and time is on OUR side.
FWIW I also was the nice guy that helped my wife move out. Well in retrospect I should have told her to get her facebook boyfriends to help her move her $hit for her.
Sorry for the raw emotions. Sometimes it just comes out. Im not really a bitter and angry person. I am really caring and loving. And right now my love goes to somebody more deserving. That is my XW's loss and all her doing. I had nothing to do with it.
Take care AFWAW. Oh and you will love Germany. Grew up there in the 60s and 70s. May be a bit different now though.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me