WAH in MLC with PA

[DiamondGirl]

So H decided to take some more $$ out of our joint account that I have kept open only for household bills.

My income no longer goes in it, but I transfer just enough to cover them in it each month. I cannot close the account as H's name is on the mortgage along with my mom's but not mine and the mortgage comes out of that account. In order to change anything to do with the mortgage, both their signatures are needed. H won't sign anything right now.

He didn't take much at all, just enough for his gas for a day or so, but if I hadn't checked the account the mortgage payment would have bounced.

In keeping with the 48 hour and email rule, I'd like advice what to do.

He doesn't put any money into the account for child support or anything and shouldn't be touching it any longer at all.

I can't control what he does, and he knows he isn't supposed to touch it, but like a kid, he is in selfish mode and doesn't care cuz his fantasy world is starting to fall.

If he gets away with it now, I'm afraid he will take larger and larger amounts out as he gets closer to bottom. I'm barely making ends meet right now and my part time job will end in a few months so things are going to get even tighter until I find another.

How do I address this? Is there a way to address this?