Thank you Tomato. Does everyone find this stage the most difficult? I don't believe I have yet. Whenever I get upset or discouraged; all I have to do is think back to the darkest days and I appreciate and am thankful for where I am. It may not be far enough into the piecing, but it has been nearly half a year since we got back together.

How long have you been at this Tomato?


Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1