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[Gardener]

June72,
Good post.

I wish I could point you to the posts about the dead soldier walking analogies...

"The only hope you have is to accept the fact that you're already dead. The sooner you accept that, the sooner you'll be able to function as a soldier is supposed to function: without mercy, without compassion, without remorse. All war depends upon it."
Ronald Spiers, Band Of Brothers.
For posts, search on" Spiers Doctrine" or "Spiers' Doctrine."

Point is, replace "dead" with "divorced" and you've got it.