Thanks OP, Drew. I have been doing a bit of a 180 on the communication thing. I feel pretty confident that it pisses him off.......since if I don't answer a text that didn't have a question attached to it, after a few hours I get another asking "did you get my text?" And, I don't know that pissed off is what I'm looking for.....thus the feeling of it being wrong to be uncommunicative and APPEAR cold......I don't know. I guess I'll move back to focussing more on me.
Hopefully the answer are inside of me (rather than what I fear is inside of me), and hopefully the armor isn't too cold......
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12