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Doc,

Glad W apologized for yelling at son but, She needs to remember that things like that are what helps a child to have lower self esteem issues.

CONGRATS on the schooling. Im'e sure you will do great!

I have not been on much. but, do lurk and try to keep up.

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Also it is great that wife seems happier and is taking an interest in things!
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Originally Posted By: Dr LOve
Hey Tomato will your plane make it to california? we do have a little airport in the town I live..


Sure with several fuel stops factored in she would. Oh and the Jet fuel is maybe 4.75/gal X about 1000 gal to get there .......and as you can see, but for the fun that I would have traversing the country in my Caravan (and I could surely think of other airplanes that would be a bunch more fun ...no knock against mine though) unless you are living from a trust fund that wouldn't even notice the nearly $5k expense to travel that way ...it would be SWA all the way for a 4500 dol savings. Airline tr4avel sucks but in cases like these they blow charter/general aviation out of the water dollars-wise.

I am perhaps heading out to the left coast 1st week of Sept to maybe go to the North American Festival of Wales (since I am a proud Welshman). It is being held in Portland but I could always arrange a Cali visit. Are you in the North, South or Central portion of the state??


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Even though I can't stand getting on an airline flight. I can't beat the price for me. As long as I am in uniform = $0


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Tomato I live about 20 miles north of San Fran.

I had a GREAT day today. The weather was great. Cleaned up the yard from the party yesterday. Helped my uncle and washed my jeep.
Forgot to tell ya during the party yesterday, W was sitting with her cousin and some friends and started telling them about my going to school.
Her cousin (who I talked about before as someone I have done a little talking to about “Problems”) did not know about it. W turned to me at the BBQ and said “How come you didn’t tell your Girlfriend about you going to school?”
I said back to her “Well I don’t tell her everything, Mystery keeps things exciting”
Don’t really know why she said that and I don’t know why I said it. I have a problem sometimes of engaging my mouth before my brain can stop me.
Anyway everybody laughed.
AND today I had wife look over a letter I needed to write for the grant. She looked it over and made some corrections (in red ink) but she was not judgmental and I did not take it personally. She even gave me some tips to think about when writing.
It was great. She was treating me like she would a friend.
Some where I read about how we get too comfortable with our spouses and this leads to being mean and treating them with disrespect. It said we would do things that we would NOT even do to a friend.
This is doing true. I was so jellius sometimes when my wife (in the past) would talk to me rudely and yet when the phone rang be all chipper and nice to her friends,

Well I go to go pick up my D so I will leave you with this...
You see it all around you
Good lovin' gone bad
And usually it's too late when you, realize what you had
And my mind goes back to a girl I left some years ago,
Who told me,
Just Hold On Loosely, but don't let go
If you cling to tightly,
you're gonna lose control
Your baby needs someone to believe in
And a whole lot of space to breathe in

It's so damn easy, when your feelings are such
To overprotect her, to love her too much
And my mind goes back to a girl I left some years ago
Who told me,
Just Hold On Loosely, but don't let go
If you cling too tight babe,
you're gonna loose control
Your baby needs someone to believe in
And a whole lot of space to breathe in

Don't let her slip away
Sentimental fool
Don't let your heart get in her way
yeah, yeah, yeah,

You see it all around you
Good lovin' gone bad
And usually it's too late when you, realize what you had
And my mind goes back to a girl I left some years ago,
Who told me,
Just Hold On Loosely, but don't let go
If you cling to tightly,
you're gonna lose control
Your baby needs someone to believe in
And a whole lot of space to breathe in

So Hold On Loosely, but don't let go
If you cling too tight babe,
you're gonna lose it
You're gonna -- lose control
yeah, yeah, yeah Just Hold On Loosely but don't let go
If you cling too tight babe,
you're gonna loose control

Hold on Loosely, but don't let go
If you cling too tight babe,
you're gonna loose control
yeah, yeah, yeah
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that sure do sound like and REO spdwgn reference there. I am only a fanatic of Rush but I seem to recognize it just the same. Of my era.

Hope your day is progressing nicely and the grant stuff works out terrific.

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Oh and btw, I have never been to San Fran area ..ever. Just the southern part of that messed up state. I lived in S.Diego for several years '95-'98.


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.38 Special buddy..Hang on loosely

Just got back. Of course he gave me more paperwork to fill out.
but everything still looks good. It is going to be allot of work I hope I am up to it..

later
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Well I took the entrance exam today and PASSED.
W was worried because of the Math anxiety I have. But instead of making me sound stupid. She went on saying how she has forgot allot of math problems since she got out of school.
W was actually trying to put me at ease…
When I got home she asked how did I do and when I told her I passed she hugged me and gave me a kiss.

Something interesting. I had to take this "behavioral" test.
It came out with this two page overview about how I am.
It was pretty accurate but the last paragraph stood out...

"When approaching a new problem or Decision, XXXXX may tend to base his decisions more on feelings than on facts. His optimism and faith in the abilities of others may cause him to make some unwise decisions."

All in all it said I was a “Persuader”


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Way to go, bro!


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.
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