Any advice on how to handle the verbal abuse that I will probably be subjected to? Threats of divorce etc.
Be the lightning rod, show her that her feelings can't move you off what your values and beliefs are. Anger is good from her, the more in control you are the better.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.