Why? - Surprise factor: W expects to have the "final chat" with me on Sat. So it's me calling the shots there. I DECIDE WHEN WE TALK, NOT YOU. - Shock factor" W will be tired after work, long commute, etc she'd have plans to meet OM who will "give her strenght" to dump me the next day. - Time difference can play on my favour. By the time she knows. OM will be at work, won't be able to take her call even if she tries to contact him. - OM will be confident that he'll be able to offer comfort once he's home but he'll find his W whose already been exposed to the affair. -
HOW? SEQUENCE
1/2 Hrs prior exposing W: take all the money off the joint account and put it into mine.
1. Expose W (Public place, far from home so she has to take the subway and won't be able to communicate with anyone then would come home to find phone line has been taken down)
2. Expose Family. - Expose to Father in Law, he's more likely to be supportive and not take her daughter's side. - Then mother. - Then Sister (she'll be shocked and she'll hesitate but side with my W. She can be crucial as she could be my INTEL after this is over.) - Then cousin and his partner (they're our only family where we live and have helped us both a lot. Both well off and are very litigious. They love her so much. I need to be care on how I approach them. They like me. I just need to find out how much they're willing to trust me.
(I NEED TO WORK OUT A "SPEECH" FOR EACH OF THEM, WORDS WILL BE CRUCIAL HERE SO THEY DON'T THINK I'M JUST BITTER AND WANT TO PUNISH HER. WORKING ON THAT DRAFT)
3. Expose OM W:
Time zone difference will play in my favour in here as they are 6 hours behind us.
- Only thing I need to take care of is that OM W would OPEN the package EXACTLY that day. And I have no way of making sure of that. Timing will be EVERYTHING HERE.
Seems to me that communicating with OM W ought to be the first thing you do. Then you will know whether she cares and what she intends to do. Because she may not check FB that often, I agree that it would be good to send the same message to her sister.
