My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

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She does actually have an extra room... she LOVES having guests and I was actually thinking of asking her if I could check in. LOL. My MIL is great and I love her to death. However, I do think to some degree she is enabling him to do what he is doing. She is a very smart woman but a little naive (might have spelt that wrong) sometimes & I think if she knew what he was doing she would NOT be happy with him at all.

The H really is just "checking in" to make sure I am on board for the marriage if he comes back. Funny thing he hasn't mentioned D in over two weeks.

I really need to work on the letter that I am going to give to him if he does come back. Something short and sweet and to the point that our M will not have a third person in it and that actions speak louder than words.... I know I have more to say just need to put it to paper.