she says, this is what I wanted to talk to you about, I found someone else ...
and the OMW, couldnt care because she has one or two on the side also.
What is the plan for Fracesc come Saturday morning and beyond?
Actually I was going to post a worst case scenario set of questions, yours are spot on.
Worst case scenarios
- Wife smells something's coming cos i'm not replying to her messages and someone how figures out I know about the affair and tips OM off.
- OM W already knows about the affair, he was honest with her this week and is leaving her. She's ok with that.
- OM W never replies or refuses to play along, she also has an affair.
- Family Exposure can't be done as expected, I can't get hold of some of the family members. Who are my priorities?
- What if someone in the family already knows?
- What if W gets depressed and tries to hurt herself?
- W trusted me information that would potentially cause her a big problem with her BF (the one aiding her in the affair). Should I use this?
Their background
W Mother= Single. Divorced when W was 13 yo. After marriage difficulties she cheated on husband maybe even more than once. I doubt it but since this is WORST case scenario, I'll ask here: What if she already knows and respects her daugther's decisions? W and OM refer to being "hiding from her" at some point. Big problems with money. She'll resent me if I make this a money issue.
W Father= Divorced 2 times. After W's Mother, divorced because his ex wife was abusing him, she was Bipolar. In a relationship. He's very wise and nice person. I can't he see him agreeing in what his daughter is doing.
W Sister= Older. Early 40s. Single. Unstable relationships but never with married men. Recovering from a long relationship that ended amicably (she wanted to have children, boyfriend didn't). They are very close but W hasn't told her about the affair definitely.
Cousin/Cousin's Partner= Gay couple. 30 and 50 yo. Stable couple, well off financially. They're only ones in the family based where we live. They helped us get a place, etc. My guess is that they will instinctively protect W but they also have much appreciation for me and will definitely respect my move if I can convince them of the affair. If I'm not successful in convincing them and took all the money, they will definitely help her sue me for all I've got. They can afford the best lawyers.
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *
