Yes, I have come to realize that I cannot try to figure the H out. He texted more after my initial post above. He said he might come over in a awhile last night night, but then said he couldn't come because "he couldn't face it right now" then he said "Night". Then an hour later he wanted to know why I didn't have anything to say. Seriously he makes no sense and it is almost as if he is grasping to make sure I will still respond to him and pay attention.
I gather as I have riden this roller coaster ride around so many times in the last 6 months that he is starting to panic about what he is doing....or the OW is backing off some. I don't know exactly, I am just guessing. But he will do this all of a sudden, act as if he cares and take the victim role.
He said he couldn't sleep and I asked him "why"? He basically played the victim and wondered why I was asking, because I apparently should know that he is having such a hard time because our marriage is failing (it has nothing to do with the OW, she is just a friend you know).... It seems like he has a pretty good life at his mom's house. It is like an all inclusive resort without the sunny beach.
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present
