you're all saying the lrt route and backing off is best for now
Max Gnosis says he thinks that isn't good because last night was the first time H opened up to me about what he was hurt by in our M. He thinks that means progress even if it wasn't what I wanted to hear. He thinks that what I'm doing is working if he opened up to me about his hurts - maybe it's a pullback with H because we've had progress - now he's scared.
The book Kalni was the opener to all the hurt underneath. I'm so glad we talked about the underneath instead of the book - which is usually where it stops.
so is this really progress? I don't know. was it the usual WAS script - "things were crappy from day one and I should have known better" or is he resolved? Should i ignore what he says and look at his actions like Max says, or should I act as if we're divorced now as Kalni says?
