I am still looking for help with how NOT to appear uncommunicative and cold as I continue to detach
I think for YOU that at this point it is not something I would worry about. Maybe being
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uncommunicative and cold
will be a 180 for you?
Your H wants to D you and you want to be nice to him? I am not saying to be mean or anything like that but just treat him like a friend that you just met for the first time. I would stick with the mirroring technique.
I still think that letting him know what it is going to be like after you D is the best strategy. After the D you are going to stay BEST FRIENDS FOREVER(BFF)? That is why he wants a D because you will still be his BFF. He has been with you so long he doesn't know any other way. Am I right? When you have a new boyfriend you think he is going to be jealous? I know you are not there yet but he knows that too, you need a little mystery.....