I had a trip scheduled this week and my H conveniently needed to spend the money I was going to take. I have decided that I am going to start depositing my paycheck in another account. Should I tell H in advance or after I have changed it. I know he is going to be upset so I am thinking that I should wait until after I have changed it so he cannot talk me out of it.
M:38 H:42 T:20 M:19 D:18 S:17 MLC: Sometime in 2007 OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07 OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009 Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009 D final: 07/09/11