I had a trip scheduled this week and my H conveniently needed to spend the money I was going to take. I have decided that I am going to start depositing my paycheck in another account. Should I tell H in advance or after I have changed it. I know he is going to be upset so I am thinking that I should wait until after I have changed it so he cannot talk me out of it.


M:38
H:42
T:20 M:19
D:18 S:17
MLC: Sometime in 2007
OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07
OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009
Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009
D final: 07/09/11