Thanks again everyone for your support. I've been doing good the last couple of days, and spent most of the day with the kids yesterday. It was fun and I finally enjoyed myself, which I haven't done in a long time. I did see my H a couple of times over the last couple of days for kids and household stuff. We just stayed out of each others way, and I liked it that way, it was more peacful.

We are going to a mandatory divorce education class tonight. It's required by our state before we can divorce. I hestitated on even going, but then a friend of mine said the first part of the class is about stopping a divorce and seeing if there are ways to work it out. And they explain the statistics on how it affects the kids. The second half of the class is about co-parenting. So, I've decided to go to the class.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10