Just had my daily therapy w/G... A few items to disperse:
#1 - As per G and Puppy, I'm going to gather intel on H. (I don't have ANYTHING, in over a YEAR of poking around to justify it, but I also was never strong enough to handle the outcome, if bad.) So, more on that...
#2 - I'm getting legal counsel. No one freak out. I'm not hiring anyone, or doing anything. I just want to know a worst case scenario (NOTE: H HAS NEVER mentioned D, but, hey, keep it up and I might.)
#3 - And, most importantly, I've developed some basic tools, responses and approaches to H, and have begun immediate use/deployment. My major issue w/H is his snarkiness. I have already begun to call him out on it. We are now moving on to calling him out on it EVERY time. When I have done this, he, typically has an "apologetic/didn't know" response. And, then he's fine. AND, when he's a good boy, he gets hugs and kisses, and words of praise, etc... Something like that dog training, Coach! My other major issue w/H is his lack of desire for intimacy. Watch out, I'm starting to feel like myself again, the one he fell in love w/, and couldn't keep his hands off. WARNING!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
LOL, you're a fire cracker mindful. Got any sisters?
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
As a matter of fact, I have a TWIN! LMAO (Not really, but we play one on DB!)
Unfortunately, Romeo, Romeo, whereforartthou my sister? Not happenin', only child. My dad always said it would have been easier to raise three boys than one Mindfull.
TRUE THAT
The payback? My Darling, Gorgeous, PITA D18! My two boys don't cover one ounce of her requirements!!!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
