But do not wait around either. This "waiting" for them to "decide" what they want can take years and most healthy people do not think it's cool to waste precious time on someone who "doesn't know...."
Thanks Kimme Lee!! As I mentioned on a previous post, I now feel how she felt. I wasted many years trying to get a life. It was not until I owned up to myself that the problems I had I made myself. I kept blaming the world for my problems. Now that I have a good grasp on things, it is my turn to wait like she did for me. But, I do not want to wait years like you said.
Originally Posted By: Kimmie Lee
In fact, go ahead and take your own wedding ring off. Be mysterious. Go out alone on some nights.
You think that is a good idea? I have had my ring off for a total of 16 hours since I have been married. I did not take it off for baseball/softball or any other sport I played. It hurt sometimes because I play first base and catch with my left hand, OUCH!!!. I just feel it is my commitment just as it was when we were married. I had thought about it since she did it, but I do not know if I want to compromise what I believe. Any thoughts?
