Yeah, if you're still experiencing anger, I'd probably say if you think it's best to keep to yourself, it might just be.

I think that is part of what allowed my reconilliation to happen, letting that anger go, even when she carried hers, until she finally saw it pointless as I wasn't angry about it anymore.

I know when my (x)W gets depressed, I drop all of my own issues and help her, as I'm sure you do for yours. It was one of the areas where I messed up before, so I make it priority one, over my own.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11