H4L, I would see a L...but don't tell H yet.

Any chance that H would be willing to discuss this in MC? You deserve to know what the heck is going on, and I don't see that happening in a safe way without some support there.

Your H seems very volatile. Is there any chance this could just be an emotional setback on his part? One day he wants you to be his passover-providing W, the next day he's all done? It sounds like a time to stand waaaay back from this and take no action IMO. Let the dust settle.

And give yourself the space to lick your wounds. Ugh.

Last edited by flowmom; 03/22/10 04:22 PM.

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