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I want to hear him say "I am sorry, I love you"


Realistically, this is the only one I think you can expect to happen. The others are questions that will pile on his guilt and make him withdraw further.

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What was he missing from us.


This is an important question. You would need to put that one to him outside of any convo about her. She is not the problem, she was obviously not the solution. She was the band-aid for the symptoms. It's important to find out what he felt was missing so that you can make sure that it's never missing again.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!