I cancelled are text messaging feature on our cell phones and blocked his numbers and everything related to the OM. It felt so good to have some control and piece just knowing he was not constantly invading our home. I felt in control of my life. It was a feeling I have not felt for sometime. I wished I had done this sooner. I expected her to say something, but there has been complete silence about it from her. What does that mean? I thought she would confront me or be mad about it. However, she has been in a very bad mood ever since though. I guess she is not happy which I really don't care about.
Any comments about her silence? Just wondering what it means!
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It is Monday morning, and I am happy another weekend is over since I do not have to deal with the constant marital problems at least until W comes home. It makes me a little more relaxed. I remember when I would look forward to the weekends. Now I am just glad when they are over. Does anyone else feel this way too?
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LSG - I can totally relate as others on here I'm sure.
I don't know what's worse...him being at work with the homewrecker or him being here on weekends knowing he just wants to be with her...UGH to the tenth power!
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
It is Monday morning, and I am happy another weekend is over since I do not have to deal with the constant marital problems at least until W comes home. It makes me a little more relaxed. I remember when I would look forward to the weekends. Now I am just glad when they are over. Does anyone else feel this way too?
No, normal people love the weekends, normal people are not glad the weekends are over, heck I wish my weekends would last indefinitely!
I cancelled are text messaging feature on our cell phones and blocked his numbers and everything related to the OM. It felt so good to have some control and piece just knowing he was not constantly invading our home.
I felt in control of my life. It was a feeling I have not felt for sometime.
I wished I had done this sooner.
I expected her to say something, but there has been complete silence about it from her.
What does that mean? I thought she would confront me or be mad about it. However, she has been in a very bad mood ever since though. I guess she is not happy which I really don't care about.
Any comments about her silence? Just wondering what it means!
Stop mind reading. If she is silent, let her be silent. I'm glad you cancelled the text messaging and blocked the guy's number on the cell phones, good move. You finally stood up for yourself, I'm sure it was a little scary at first but standing up for yourself when you haven't done so in such a long time is a new experience for you, so I'm sure it was a little unsettling but that's ok, that's a growth experience - get in the habit of being more assertive and standing up for yourself regularly.
Next move will be this, "hey wife you either agree to invest 110% wholehearted effort into this marriage or you can invest 110% wholehearted effort into a divorce because i won't live in an open marriage anymore, this has gone on long enough and I'm not doing this anymore. Since I've been watching the kids full time while you work, I'll be pursuing joint custody (or full custody, up to you) and child support as well as spousal support - men and women are equal nowadays, if you don't mind cheating on your husband, I don't mind my wife paying alimony and child support. Thank you!!!"
The question is.... do you have the guts to do this yet?
It is Monday morning, and I am happy another weekend is over since I do not have to deal with the constant marital problems at least until W comes home. It makes me a little more relaxed. I remember when I would look forward to the weekends. Now I am just glad when they are over. Does anyone else feel this way too?
love sick guy you need a new name. now that stuck is bond. we need a jaws.
I love weekends. Love weekdays. Love my freetime. Love my job. Love myself. I am having a blast; Feel 20 years younger; In fantastic shape. Over 650 situps a day easy. Been approached by women half my age. Been told things by women my own age that has made clear this whole concept of a walk-away-wife. Having fun in all aspects of my life.
My relationship with my wife has evolved into something worthwhile. She still has some issues. But I'm happy no matter what the outcome. Hell, I could be hit by a bus today and die with no regrets.
Agent Smith: 650 situps everyday?! Why, Mr. McQueen? Why do you do it? Why do situps? Why keep working out? Do you believe you're developing incredible abdominal muscles? For more than your survival? Can you tell me why you do this? Do you even know? Is it fitness? Or health? Perhaps both? Yes? No? Could it be for love? Illusions, Mr. McQueen. Vagaries of perception. The temporary constructs of a feeble human intellect trying desperately to justify an existence that is without meaning or purpose. And all of them as artificial as the Matrix itself, although only a human mind could invent something as insipid as six pack abs & situps. You must be able to see it, Mr. McQueen. You must know it by now. You can't continue to do 650 situps everyday. It's pointless to keep working. Why, Mr. McQueen? Why? Why do you persist?
Steve McQueen: Because I choose to. "Because IT'S F**KING GREAT TO BE ALIVE!"
