I think you're right. At the moment she is in the fog with the OM living it up. The OM told me when I confronted that "your marriage was over 13 months ago when you moved in together, I had nothing to do with it." Interesting why the W bothered to marry me 7 months after "it was over" so I've no idea what pack of lies and deceit and twisted reality is going on between them.
Wow, your a bigger man then I, I probably would have beat the crap out of him right there and then before he spoke the last word. Good luck in your stitch.
M:40 W:40 D: 21 S: 18 D: 17 Md: 18 years -1/19/2010 W wants out -6/03/10 "Live for today, for tomorrow is promised to no-one.."