WWelll, we had a big talk alst night and all my fears are confirmed. We finally got into the deeper stuff, but puncuated by a constant 'you need to get it through your head I don't want to be with you." Our deal was he would work throught stuff with me if we went to the L for legal sep and now he suddenly doesn't want to work through it. He says he "changed him mind" and has been happier this past year than during our "nightmare" marriage.
I feel lied to and tricked and everyone warned me this would happen.
I guess we're not piecing, and I was fooling myself. Need expert advice very devastated.