I am not going to see her before she goes!!! Sh!t I dont know what to do about this one. She is supposed to be the only one from her company going on this trip. I could try find out where OM is at the time. If he is conveniently at the same place she is... well then, it doesnt take a rocket scientist to figure it out.
Yes, see if you can discreetly find out if OM will be there. No need to communicate ANYTHING to her before she goes. We want to send her a text or e-mail AFTER she goes, but at the VERY BEGINNING of her trip.