WAH in MLC with PA

[DiamondGirl]

Email from H asking re: what he can claim for taxes... I advised him by return email very politely.. nothing... He replied that he thought he should be able to claim S13 disability at least, but as he was not primary caregiver as of Dec 31, I told him he probably couldn't.

He asked if I wanted to file together and split the refund 50/50. I told him sorry, I already sent mine in. I advised him he could paper file his and include a letter to see if they would allow him to claim part of the kids' info as we separated end of year.

All very polite and he didn't get angry or spewing... sounded down to me actually...

He thanked me for responding to his questions.. so I replied "no problem, have a good day" (as I would for any friend)

He then sent an email saying he would agree to Sole Custody if I agreed to his visitation demands..

I replied back that I thought he was no longer moving to the US (probably shouldn't have said that).. and that there were other issues in the visitation he proposed that I didn't agree with, but that I had to go to a meeting and couldn't discuss it further at the moment...

The fact that H even suggested giving me Sole Custody is shocking to me.. the H I married would never, ever give up the right to decisions in his childrens' lives.

I'm not sure if he's deeply depressed or if OW is back in the picture again...

Or he could have been trying to show me that just because we talked on the phone and through email he still wants to go ahead with D...

Not spending any more time thinking about it... but I wish I knew which way the wind blows right now...