She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[tbart01]

peace, if your H had pulled his head out of his a$$ and made the changes and realizations some of us had would it have changed anything early on? It's kind of irrelevant, but as I read your sitch I kept wanting to hit you H in the head.

I agree about needing to into the mindset of either outcome. However, as you can imagine it's even harder in my situation because i haven't even seen her yet. that makes it all even more confusing. Our sitch has been all telephone.

You keep hearing not to talk about the R. What if the W brings up the R, do you talk about it then? I never bring up the sitch or r talk. She called last week and asked when I wanted to talk about finances and I told her when I get home. we've only talked for about 1 minute since then.

I found out today that I'll be going home 9 April, and I'm nervous as he!!. I will continue to update and ask for advice. You all have been very helpful, i just pray I can do what i need to do.