You're trying to e-mail her ahead of time, so soften the blow, out of fear for her reaction, but you've got to just DO this
Its not that I fear her reaction. All the help from you guys on my thread and from reading others has really helped me. I am not scared of her anymore. I am accepting that I need to move on, with or without her. I have realised that I deserve the best, and how she is behaving now is not best for me, and and I dont want to be with the person she has become.
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Brother, about the one GOOD thing you get out of such a move is her RESPECT for your STRENGTH; if you convey weakness by e-mailing her about it, you're going to get all of the blowback, with none of the respect, and it's not worth it
The reason I wanted to do it by email is so I could get my point across as clearly as possible. As I said, I am not a very good verbal communicator. But I see your point and definately dont want all my efforts be in vain. I guess I will just have to write my script and read it like 300 times.
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As for the timing on the boundary, you WANT her stewing the whole time she is away, if you think she is there with OM (and I believe she is) -- infidelitus interruptus. That's the whole point!
I am not going to see her before she goes!!! Sh!t I dont know what to do about this one. She is supposed to be the only one from her company going on this trip. I could try find out where OM is at the time. If he is conveniently at the same place she is... well then, it doesnt take a rocket scientist to figure it out.
