OMG I love the marking his territory comment too but, feels kinda good that he is jealous after everything you have been through doesn't it?
Yes the Dreaded taxes! I do have Williamson law book for Clerk and the taxes. Still learning though but, i am getting the hang of it. although I still have to send out second notices didn't know about that as I haven't had help at all with it. I do have a couple of fellow clerks that are answering my questions and when they come across something that they think I might not know the give me a call.
hope spring treats you well. You do sound good.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
His jealousy speaks volumes And your response was perfect.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
The jealousy was kind of nice, though for a little bit he was getting somewhat pissy towards me over it before I told him to chill out over it.
Oh, another thing that reaffirmed the "fog". The summer my H left, my father was very, very sick. He was on a respirator, in a medically induced coma, for 5 weeks because of pneumonia. For a few weeks, they didn't know if he was going to pull through. He was in hospital a total of 8 weeks.
My H would come over a couple times a week to watch our son so I could go to the hospital. I know I did tell him how serious it was because I remember at one point I started crying and he gave me a hug. We got on the subject of our parents this weekend and he was asking about my father. He asked about when he was sick and asked why I didn't tell him how bad it was and that he would have gone to see him (he never went to visit, sent a card or anything. His freakin' parents visited my dad weekly!).
They really are in a fog.
Me38,H:38,S:7 Married:6/99 Bomb:7/04 Sep.:5/05 D Filed:3/08;Final 1/10 Piecing:11/09 H moved back:09/10 Current thread: http://tiny.cc/htcty
My WH doesn't even remember things I tell him an hour before and then he argues with me that I never said that. Is it really due to the MLC fog, or could it be hormonal? It's really scary when they are like that.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
Hey FM! Things are still going good with H. Same even keel that's been going on for the past few months. I kind of feel ansty here and there waiting for a step to the next level--what step I'm not sure, but something more I guess.
I had to have our 15 year old cat put to sleep Tuesday. Her sister died last winter, so now with both of them gone, it's the end of an era. We got them when we were barely 22--the four of us grew up together in a way. Moved up and down the east coast with them by our sides. H's been sweet though and checking up on us to see how we're doing.
I have to have surgery sometime in the next month or so for a hernia. H's been acting very worried over that even though I've told him it's not a huge deal and very routine. A sucky recovery since it's abdominal surgery, but a routine operation.
His reaction so far has been strange in that he barely even acknowledged it when I had a c-section and then was ready to literally abandon me in the ER a week later when I was having some major complications post partum. Since the bomb came about a month later, it made sense after that, but at the time I was dumbfounded on how he was so cold those times.
I've been reading your thread here and there and was glad to see your business meeting went well the other day!
Me38,H:38,S:7 Married:6/99 Bomb:7/04 Sep.:5/05 D Filed:3/08;Final 1/10 Piecing:11/09 H moved back:09/10 Current thread: http://tiny.cc/htcty
Thanks for the update Freckle. Glad to hear that things are going well, but I can understand the antsiness!
Sorry to hear about your cat and glad that your H is being kind about it.
My H recently had hernia surgery and the recovery was surprisingly quick -- I hope your experience is similar.
Take care!
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
And your response was perfect.
Her sister died last winter, so now with both of them gone, it's the end of an era. We got them when we were barely 22--the four of us grew up together in a way. Moved up and down the east coast with them by our sides. H's been sweet though and checking up on us to see how we're doing.