Help! I've been struggling for 2 years and don't

[Eunicetiger]

Well, I'm going on day 6 "in the dark." I haven't called, txt, or emailed her since then. The only communication i've had with her is a txt on Thursday where she asked if our son had a t-ball game saturday. I only responded with a "no." I thought she knew he didn't have any tournament games this weekend, but I may be reading more into that.

In any case, I'm wondering what or if she is even thinking at this point, because I went from txting and calling her often to zilch for nearly a week. It's really tough doing this cause I guess I'm scared that she will actually like it and enjoy not having me around or hearing from me. But I know I've tried everything else and it hasn't worked. And in the past week, I've felt stronger as a person by doing this.....so I guess it hasn't been totally horrible.

My wife is very hardcore and very stubborn, and when she sets her mind to something, she will do it (no matter who it hurts or helps or how she is perceived). She has this ability to not care about anything ...... or at least that's what she says and the way she acts. Anyway, I'm rambling, but wanted to give an update and see if there were any new suggestions on my next move. I've read the first chapter of DR on here and the book is being shipped so I should be getting it by Thursday or Friday. Anymore short-term suggestions are greatly appreciated. Thanks! Jeff