This won't work. It's emasculating, she will lose respect for you, and as McQueen says, it doesn't convey "strong, caring husband" to her. Frankly, it conveys "gay boyfriend."
Puppy
In trying to be a kinder, gentler Steve today, I avoided saying that, but Puppy is 100% correct there. If you try to visualize this as a third party observing, how would you describe, as an observing 3rd party, this woman's opinion of this man as she talks to him like this?
Another question/scenerio, how would she react, if you said, 'No problem, there is someone that I am getting to know and would like to find out where it may go? I think she might be my soul mate.' Would baby steps cross her mind?
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I plan on being patient and showing her the new me and the confident me who enjoys being with her and talking with her and listening to her.
you dont honestly enjoy taking to your wife about another man? when you barfed did you swallow it back down or spit it into the napkin?