Yes I did lie about a few things in the past. Nothing along the lines of an affair. I lied about things like going out after work for drinks primarily. The reality thought is that this stops about 1.5 YEARS ago. When I changed jobs I stopped going out and was always HOME. Look Lost I was the not the greastest husband this I admit.
She will use the ammunition she has.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.